Everyone has been through obstacles or disadvantages in their daily routines. Some of them realize that the obstacle is bigger than them so it makes the struggle really hard and squeeze their energy to conquer it and pass the day with a heavy heart. Some people able to see the advantage left of it and turn their self into somebody who have more creativity, wisdom and positive energy to pass the day. So when the next obstacle comes, they could build up their experiences from the past and come with a new strategy to solve the problem. Which made their life easier or not even see the difficulty in their way and the positive energy to the obstacles or disadvantages that I believe can turn the story around.
Apparently, big or small obstacles are manageable with our superpower brain and a willing in our heart. For someone who has low self-esteem will always be pessimist, don’t trust them self could through the obstacle and the scariest part is that they won’t let the best of them show. For an easy example, when saying “sorry” is an obstacle. It’s not about something that needs physical activity but it takes years to believe, to trust if saying sorry would not hurt them self. They would think for the bad long exposures and never overcome their fears. In fact, on the other hand people who don’t need to make up their mind to say sorry could use it as a bridge to a brand new relationship. Beyond just saying sorry, they would take actions to show how they really concern about the upset situation. Likely, they would also show their creativity to comfort their love ones. On top of that, the experience will grow their wisdom bigger. They would think for the good long term effect.
Another example for a larger obstacle. Not everybody have a chance to attend a formal institution to get some educations. Maybe they are facing financial difficulty, mental difficulty or physical difficulty. Just if you’re thinking and believe if it still possible to get educated in any form, from any source, you could overcome the disadvantages and achieves what you deserves. A poor hardworking fisherman could be rich of knowledge of stars and waves. Because he have some attitudes to push forward and educate himself in what he good at. As a result, he has a good lives and able to feed their family and other family who eats his fishes.
As I say in the beginning, I believe if obstacles or disadvantages are manageable if we put work, will and thought in it. We always be keys to our success and we can control the outcome whatever the disadvantages we was born with.
